Bonjour my dearest Friends <3
I must voice that it brings SO much HOPE for KINDNESS and RESPECT to, from, and for, each and everyone of us, especially so for all the AMAZING WOMEN and YOUNG WOMEN of our world… that for the first time ever in our society’s history, there are DRASTIC and POWERFULLY PUBLIC CONSEQUENCES for all of those who CHOOSE to HURT OTHERS in regards to sexual harassment, and/or ignoring sexual consent.
Social Medias, and Medias in general, have finally allowed for horribly hurtful and destructive behaviors that once used to be known to only a handful of local people, to now be known by EVERYONE… to now be known by millions… and this is such a truly great thing for the benefit of womankind and mankind… for the benefit or respect and kindness to ALL!
For all those who indeed, very knowingly, HURT, DISRESPECT, and literally SCAR FOR LIFE another human being, all for their sole unilateral self serving benefit and despicable pleasure… there are now MAJOR CONSEQUENCES to their destructive acts… very VERY public consequences… and this brings so much hope to my heart that MILLIONS of those who WOULD have been future victims… will now be protected and their lives and souls spared from such life changing and destructive events!
From having listened, with endless empathy and compassion, with tears in my eyes and deep into my heart, to the thousands of stories and intimate sharings of thousands of Women and Men who I have known, it literally breaks my heart to know that more than 1/4 of the Women who I have known and talked to, have BEEN either raped, or physically abused, or deeply emotionally abused, or even abused by their own parents!!!… and that is simply INSANE and THAT REALLY HAS TO STOP !!!
I am talking about 1 in 4 Woman or Man IN YOUR OWN LIFE!!!… in YOUR own days and surroundings… in YOUR OWN FAMILY!!!… who have been, and are, such VICTIMS!!! 🙁 And yes this is an OUTRAGE to human kind as a whole… and we now more than ever, have the tools to drastically reduce that, if not one day maybe, eliminate it all together!
It does not take a huge IQ at all to understand that if someone says, or shows, “NO!”… it means NO!!!!… and nothing else! If you see FEAR or HURT or even TENSION on someone’s face then YES! You DO KNOW that what YOU ARE DOING IS INCREDIBLY WRONG! And if you know that someone is doing something that they clearly would NOT do otherwise, solely because YOU have POWER over them, YOU are MANIPULATING them for your sole benefit… then what you are doing is ALSO deeply WRONG!
As you probably already have guessed through my words, I do have very VERY “little” tolerance (as in … ZERO!!!!) for anyone who is clearly very aware that they are hurting or abusing someone else… whether with their words, or actions, or any other means… and YET THEY DO IT!!!
So I wanted to voice how I am beyond GRATEFUL for the immense AWARENESS and “PUBLICNESS” that this whole new movement has created… for it it is all going to, and it ALREADY IS… and HAS… SAVED MILLIONS of PEOPLE, WOMEN especially since there is clearly so much more abuse from men to women, than from men to men, or from women to men, from BEING HURT, and from being SCARED FOR LIFE as such abused always destroys the deepest parts of their soul, and of their spirit 🙁
And all those very public outings of people with power who chose to abuse it , is an amazing GREAT first step in doing so.
It brought so many things to my mind to view this video that I am including here under… way too many to share… but I will at least share 2 of them here…one which is that it is very easy to think that most of those predatory and power abusive situations happen from MEN in power to WOMEN within their reach… but it ALSO happens a lot to MEN, and Kevin Spacey’s situation is a very needed reminder of such…
It also brought so many thoughts to my mind to observe how someone like him who used to obviously crave the attention of the cameras, and of hundreds of people admiring him and looking up to him on any and all movie or TV sets that he was on… and being so used to walking in anywhere and being so admired and envied… to suddenly wishing to the greatest depth of his being that he could be anywhere BUT in front of THOSE cameras on that day! As a general thought and modest sharing, please always be very VERY careful about WHO you choose to “admire” for unless you know their true character and the truth of their heart (or lack of) you just never know…
Please PLEASE PLEASEEEEE ALWAYS CHOOSE KINDNESS and LOVE and RESPECT to all <3 … always… each and everyone of us ALWAYS has that choice, in EVERYTHING we DO or SAY or CHOOSE NOT to DO or NOT to SAY…
And PLEASE LOVE EACH OTHER ALWAYS… <3 it will be the most beautiful gift of all to both hearts <3
With much MUCH love to YOU <3 …and all my endless love and support and caring and compassion for all the scars of your heart and soul… those that no eye will ever see…