whenever this happens I always take it as a huge gift (from them to me… and to my life’s journey… as I would much rather get to know the “real them” very early on… than 6 months or 2 years in a relationship… When people are “unmindful” and “unpolite” enough to ghost someone else, eventhough I have great compassion for why they act that way (always coming from a deep lack of love and guidance in their past) it also of course does not mean that I would ever want to put myself, and in my heart, in the path of their unmindful choice of behavior…
So just say a big “Thank you”… filled with endless compassion for their suffering to whoever did that to you… and be very grateful for all the time and suffering they just saved you from…
My modest 2 cents… <3
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